Friday, May 8, 2009

Talking & listening means "I love you"

"My ideal man should be smart, tall, caring and decent," Ms Ji specified.

What's interesting about this description is that only one attribute, height, is physical.
The way I see it, loving and being in love with someone means sharing - even the deepest or most painful feelings, being totally vulnerable, and trusting your partner to hold your heart gently, and never use that information against you.
It has nothing to do with what you look like, how much money you make, or in some cases, even what gender you are.
I personally believe it's next to impossible to do this without deep and honest talking and listening - probably lots and lots of both.

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