How I come across initially

"I met Paul for the first time 22 years ago," Patrick told buddies at his house in Simei. "We struck off well and have been brothers ever since."

Occassionally, I'd invite someone whom I feel is observant and a good judge for a coffee and ask him/her for some feedback on how I come across to others. I will ask questions such as

If you met me today, for the 1st time, what kind of guy would you say I am?

What impression did I make on yu when we 1st met?

How has your impression of me changed, if at all?

Trust me, at a minimum, this journey of assessment will be provocative, at best it will be life-changing.