Monday, August 30, 2010

Surviving and thriving at trade shows

CiBTM starts tomorrow.

Selling at a trade show or roadshow is not a normal physical activity. Standing on ultrahard concrete (that gets harder by the hours) and being nice to visitors all day will strain even the most seasoned sales veteran.

To find that to feel our best and be our best, we must be in good physical condition.

Getting in shape for the show will keep our energy high all day long. This way, we'll be way ahead of our competition.
Johnson (right), Alex (centre)

Saturday, August 28, 2010

Working through challenges

"I am leaving my boyfriend,"Ada updated the status of her blackberry messenger.

Relationships are a union of 2 imperfect individuals and by staying committed even when it doesn't feel all that good, we can make the relationship stronger. Sometimes walls have to come down, habits and priorities have to change.

This much I know: It takes courage, commitment and character to work it out.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

What goes around, comes around

"I feel so down," Peggy wrote in her Blackberry message. "The chairman said that I should leave the company. It's definitely the b%#*h who poked me behind my back."

Here's the brutal truth: the higher the corporate mountain we climb, the more people will evaluate, judge, and criticize us. The more successful we become, the larger the pool of people who will potentially dislike us.

The expression "what goes around, comes around"really is true. I know it to be true. It has been proven in life.

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Communites can be good business

"Smart companies gain from online communities," screamed the headlines on Asiaone News

More and more communities are built on the internet nowadays. Communities are built around common interests, such as tasting fine wines, listening to R&B music or practices: sales leaders no matter where they reside.

Having a customer base that shares a common interest such as travelling is priceless. We can create a community to keep these customers coming back for more. And by eavesdropping electronically on customers'public communication with one another, we'll learn what's on their mind, what they value and what they care about; in short - you have our hands on these people's pulses.

Most companies would kill for this kind of information. Fostering community can be very good for business.

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Learning from pressure

"I have had to do all my marketing and promotional activities on a shoe-string budget," moaned Ros.

Have you ever worked for someone with impossible deadlines? Have you ever been forced to produce with a lot less than your competition? I have learned invaluable lessons and that experience changed my thinking and behaviour. It's clear to me that these ruthless use of time and demands to do it quicker and better separate winners from the losers. But I never confuse haste with speed.

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Don't retort if you don't have to

"The best way to win an argument is to stay out of one," Eric wisely concluded.

Be an owl, I was told. Owls, they say, are supposed to be wise because they appear wise all the time and hoot only occassionally.

"I wish you'd learn to save once in a while."

"You're a cheapskate"

"Why don't you mind your own business?"

"Is money so important to you?"

"I should never have married you."

Why hasten unhappiness with a retaliatory retort? I'll spare myself the unnecessary follow-through. Leave my blood pressure closer to normal.

This attitude, I find, retains friendships and close the door on many of the delibilating diseases that unhappiness can bring.


I know. I've tried it.

Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Women power

I have a team of team of 8 ladies in the office.

Research is abundantly clear that women "get people"better than men do. It's not even a close contest. MRI scans reveal that women have as many of 16 distinct areas of the brain where they process and interpret behaviours and messages while in contrast, men typically have no more than 6 distinct areas.

Women tend to better able to multitask and handle several different streams of thought at the same time, while men are better at working through 1 or 2 streams of thought at a time before moving on to others.

from right: jades, Let, Stephie

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Caring is good business

"People want their staff to stay long but they do not know how to look after them well," Irene remarked over her hotpot.

Caring is not a warm fuzzy new age concept. It's good business.

Staff treat customers exactly the way they're treated by their leaders. Companies that care for their staff attract the best talent and keep that talent longer. Teams perform better when they're led by caring leaders.

In a nutshell: people don't care how much we know until they know how much we care.

I always try to offer respect, understanding and acknowledgement so that I'll foster incredible loyalty.

from left: Shirley, Vic, Colin

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Alighn actions and words

"Talk the talk and walk the walk,"Dato Ong used to preach.

My overall goal is to improve the business' position by creating an environment of speed,agility, creativity and flexibility. So, by bringing my actions and words into alignment, I hope to increase my credibility with the important Generation X and Y members of my team.

Monday, August 9, 2010

I care, therefore I criticise

In the Chinese movie "Aftershock", a young mother of 2 is forced to give up her daughter to save her son. And since then, the cruel decision changed the whole family's destiny.

Some family members feel they have not only the right but an obligation to tell when they think someone's doing something wrong.

To the one who is being told to do things differently, what comes through loudest and clearest is the criticism. But the one offering suggestions and judgments is usually focused on the caring.

It's impossible to say which is right; both meanings are there. But I can only say this: I care, therefore I criticise.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

What women want

"You have a good title, money and nice cars, and they will all come for you like bees to honey," Benny preached.

Many of my mates mistakenly believe that if they can just make vice president, the girls will be all over them. Not quite. It's taken me a while, but I now know that they don't want your money; they want your time. They want your attention. They want a soul mate.

And they still want you to be a gentleman. That's something that will never go out of style. All women, or all the good ones anyway, have a sixth sense for dishonesty. And they swear by the zero-tolerance approach.

Monday, August 2, 2010

Don't depend on others for happiness

"There is absolutely no hope for our marriage now," Michelle cried. "We are in 2 different worlds. He is so wrapped up in his work; he has no time left for me and the children. My whole life has been so wrapped up in him; but now I'm getting tired of sitting at home, waiting for him. I'm not accomplishing anything on my own. I don't even know if I love him anymore."

Why allow what someone else does to destroy our lives? Why permit the actions of another to rob us our peace and joy?

We should discover our own source of happiness. No more leaning on someone else to give meaning and purpose to our lives. Have a happiness that will not be lost just because someone fails us.