Small changes can make a BIG difference

"My long weekend was too long," Angel said sadly. "We quarrelled the entire time."So you have arguments.

Take it from me sister: the first thing to realise is that you're not the only one.

We have all been there before. Sometimes, the arguments erupt quickly but then die away. Other times, they build slowly, lead to a weekend's solid arguing and then leave us traumatised for days.

It could be issues of money, kids, in-laws, friends - but when these come up, it's like World War III has broken out.

But whatever the pattern or issue, one thing will be permanent: the pain.

Some folks may have reached the point where they think "enough is enough." Actually that's good. It means something's going to change.