The more you ruv someone

I watched Avenue Q - the musical last night. One of the characters, Christmas Eve sang:
"The more you ruv someone, the more he make you cry."

The more someone matters to you, the more you will mind when things between you go wrong.

That is why, I think, many couple break up; some even after many years of marriage. Others cling together forever when clearly there is no love; when struggles and problems have curdled their love, turning it to bitterness and dislike.

These are the hallmarks of unresolved problems - disruptive and damaging. But, working through problems gives the relationship strength.

My personal view on this is: love that has never been tested is more fragile.