Surviving infidelity

"So many people I know have been through it - infidelity," Mr Chung said. "They have become infidels."

Infidelity can either destroy a relationship or be the 1st step toward mending one - that's up to the couple.

Turn on the TV, open a history book, read a newspaper and you can find some examples of infidelity. I'm sure you can think of at least 5 people you know who have had to cope with cheating partners at some point in their lives.

For a long time, I was convince that if a spouse cheated, there's no turning back, that any marriage/relationship, no matter how strong, could survive infidelity - until I met Kim.

Of course the reasons may not justify the behaviour, but getting to the crux of the problem and finding a solution helped them survive their ordeal and build a stronger relationship.