The husband-wife combo: Progress or perish

"An affair caused Tiger Woods car crash," Andy read the headllines. "A good marriage should have no serious problems. A poor marriage is one in which there are many problems," he continued, almost starting a debate.

I beg to differ. Problems go along with people - in and out of marriage. If you don't have problems, you're probably in coma.

The difference between smooth sailing and shipwreck in marriage lies in what we as a couple are doing about the rough weather.