Friday, February 20, 2009

Parenting styles

"I would have smacked him first and then talk later, "Ng commented about a mother who grabbed her toddler away from an on-coming MTR train in Hong Kong.

Parents differ tremendously in disciplinary tactics. Whatever the tactics, the least effective parenting style - I believe - is the parent who is consistently inconsistent. They would confuse their kids.

I also don't believe that nagging and theatening work. The child can tune them out and both child and parent would end up bitter.

I would admit that I do not know everything about child rearing, but I do have the conviction that kids grow up to be the adults we, as parents, mould them.
From left: MIL, Goo, Boon, ACE, hon

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