Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Negotiate a solution

"That's not fair," Amit complained. " "Amit is cheating," Eve whispered. "He has not been doing his fair share."

People let us down. The divorce courts are full of claims of broken promises, unrealised expectations and unfulfilled dreams.

How many of us had cause to complain about something or somebody recently, either at work or elsewhere?

People, undoubtedly, are good at complaining, especially if a perceived element of unfairness is felt.

But they are usually absolutely bereft of ideas about their most important interest...namely...getting their grievances remedied in some way. That's why I urge: dont' just complain, negotiate a solution.

From left: shirley, Kathy, Eve

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