Love wins out - always

ACE had a medical setback yesterday.

In practical terms, love instills the will to persist when the going gets so tough that any "reasonable" person would quit. I see this demonstrated many many times when a child is seriously ill or terribly injured in an accident and mum and dad lovingly invests countless hours over a period of months - even years - in an effort to comfort and hopefully restore him to mental and physical health.

Love wins out - always.

Empathy

"I am going to get my belongings back. It's over between us," Wei Wei murmured.

True love is about making the effort to understand the different world a loved one inhabits and to respect the individuality within it.  This is because we are all very complicated. Everything we do, say and think is tied up with the experiences of our entire lives. Because you are an individual, no one will ever know what it is like to be you.

Do-gooder

ACE participated in his second last Community Service Project today. Next Saturday will be the last session to the senior citizen home in the 2-month project.

I believe such activity can give my teenager a sense of worth and belonging. I believe no one in his group will forget the Saturdays of these past two months. Each became more of a man because of those Saturdays.

It's important we take the "do-gooder" energies and build human contact instead of just chequebook approaches to making our kid's lives richer.

No commitment in the world like having children

My cousin Fabian just became a parent for the 5th time. Another cousin Bernie is going to be a parent for the 1st time.

The is no commitment in the world like having children.I have shown ACE constant attention, faith and love. Like all parents since Adam and Eve, I have made mistakes; but I've learned from them, I've learned from ACE and we've grown together.

Brick by brick, step by step

"I would have finished paying out all my card debts by the end of this year," cuz said with a sense of relief.

Many years ago I went through a tough time financially. I was in debt, I had a family to support, so I ended up doing free lance training in addition to my full time job. I did whatever I could to make a few dollars. I handled what was in front of me, and stayed open to opportunities. I lived hand-to-mouth, one month at a time.

The question always is...what are you willing to do to improve your circumstances. I have proven that our lives can and will change when we take responsibility for choices we have made - in our education, our relationships and our lives - and begin the work necessary to better our situation.

God helps those who help themselves. Your ship can't come in until you've sent it out. Climb out of your hole, and then climb up your mountain. The harder you work, the higher you go - and the higher you ascend, the better the view. Build your life, brick by brick, step by step. 

The 21st century sales leader

"My DOS is the best. She yells, shouts, and kick ass and gets things done" CD proudly announced.

Managing people has perhaps never been a more daunting task in the midst of a modern scheme filled with endless possibilities and opportunities.

As a conductor in the orchestra is dependent on the musicians, so too the sales leader in the twenty-first century is largely dependent on his/her team members. I noticed the most effective sales leaders are those who find ways to advance the organisation, while at the same time helping the team members to advance personally and professionally. 

If a leader attempts to advance the organisation to the detriment of the team members' purpose, it will hurt both associate and company.

Fuse getting longer

I watched the movie "42" yesterday inboard SQ865. The movie was about Jackie Robinson a negro baseball player who never takes racism lying down. He became the first African American Major League player. He struggles against his nature to endure unrelenting racist hostility on and off the pitch from players and fan alike.

As a teenager I had quite a temper. They called me the executioner on the football field. I took myself too seriously and would lose my temper at the drop of a hat. I would throw stuff, bang flipchart boards down and yes, scream and shout. I look back now and wondered where that person went.

I had mentors at work who taught me the way of character and the power of virtue in our lives. Over the years I developed in mind me heart, increasing my self-control. My fuse was getting longer. I am working to be a man who walks calmly, thinks calmly and acts calmly, even under pressure - especially under pressure.