Monday, May 31, 2010
My people take precedence
Eliminate obstacles to success
I obtained an MBA through distance learning so that no one could say I couldn't handle the job technically. I attended many seminars and read many books on managing people and adopted the techniques I could that would help me to better manage my people.
You, too, can eliminate obstacles to your success. Aspects of your job can be enhanced by night school and seminars.
Saturday, May 29, 2010
Action speaks louder than words
Everybody is familiar with the cliche "action speaks louder than words."
It is important to say the right things. It is even more important to do the right thing.
Ultimately, our actions are of greater consequence than our words. I always say what needs to be said, then act accordingly. Temporary discomfort is better than temporary relief. Results, for me, are judge and jury.
Friday, May 28, 2010
Sustaining intensity in middle years
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Young men dream dreams, old men see visions
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
me-1st-and-you-and-the-son-can-have-what's-left-over
Amazingly enough, many couples make time for just about everything - and everybody - but each other. I'll have to confess that I am possibly the most guilty person alive on this one, or at least I was very guilty. I still am to a degree, but not nearly as much as I was a few years ago.
In the past, when acquaintances or business associates would pass through town and say, "It's my only night here," or "I'm here for the next couple of days," I would expect my wife to "understand" that I had to see my friend or business associate.
Basically, it was a "me-1st-and-you-and-the-son-can-have-what's-left-over" approach to marriage.
I'm pleased to say that now, in most cases, I have my priorities in order and weigh the importance of the get together before accepting or turning it down.
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Fear of looking foolish
"Please tell me how people perceive me," Clement asked. "I am not one to mince my words."
Almost everyone fears looking foolish. Everyone has refrained at least once from asking questions out of fear that someone would say, "You mean you don't know that?" We've all held back emotions - whether laughter or tears - for fear of being thought a fool, losing face, being humiliated, losing respect and position.